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Picking blueberries with my family showed me I needed to be a less anxious parent
This is a First Person column by Francis Chang, who lives in Vancouver. For more information about CBC's First Person stories, please see the FAQ. In the mid-2000s, when my wife and I returned to Vancouver after a stint working in Hong Kong, going to …